I feel numb down there!

I feel very numb down there and usually have no sensation or feeling what-so ever when my man is giving me oral or having sex with me, what do I do?

Answer

This can be caused by a lot of things. The very best thing you can do is go to your doctor and get some help that way. Don't worry they have heard it all before. Commonly it can be a hormonal imbalance. If you are on the pill, do not assume that all of your hormones are in check. Anti-depressants can cause an imbalance but can also put things back in order. For at home solutions you can try vibrators, warming/cooling/tingling lubricants, other sex toys, etc. Try not to be too rough though, if your sensation has been dulled you may not know if you are actually being hurt. There is a lot of sensitive tissue down there.