Warning Signs Your Man is Cheating

These are a few warning signs that your spouse might be cheating on you.

Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with his job, with the kids, with his hobbies, and with life in general. This boredom is like the midlife crisis, he wants something new and exciting. Besides getting a new car in which the effects wear off after a while, an affair is really exciting and he might not stop at just one.

Your spouse seems more secretive. Obviously if someone is secretive, they usually have something to hide. They may be secretive about small things or big things. He might lie about the exact time he got to work or left work. He might not tell you how is day was or about his golf game with the guys. But you might not realize he is being secretive right away, and that is not your fault. You trust him, why would you doubt what he has to say? He's counting on that.

You notice charges on your/his credit card statement that don't make sense. Usually a man will need to spend some money in order to make his mistress happy, a room, dinner, entertainment or maybe something kinky from the store. Especially if he is an older man, most younger women will go for them if they think theres a free ride involved.

You find keys on his key ring that don't fit any of the locks at home. If he says he can't remember what they are for, then why are they on there?

You feel as if your being avoided. The less time he spends with you the less opportunity for him to slip up and get caught. He's your spouse/partner if everything was harmonious he wouldn't be avoiding you. You might even be avoiding him if you feel there is something wrong but don't know what it is.

Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you. Money is a common thing to fight about in a relationship, and it is often a destructive force. By starting fights about money he maybe hoping you will end the relationship. Odds are he is feeling too guilty to actually end the relationship. By getting you to end it, that weight is lifted from his shoulders. He still doesn't want to get caught as that makes him the bad guy. But if you end it, it looks like you're the bad guy. On the other hand money might be becoming an issue because he is supporting someone else as well, either through gifts or apartments.

You discover he has a post office box. A man would only have a post office box if he had mail going to it that he didn't want his family to see. He might be sending and receiving letters or having gifts delivered to it. Go to the post office and see if you can get the mail. Say you misplaced your key and ask if they will check if you have any mail.

Your spouse is more attentive than usual. This is usually a feeling of guilt and a way of covering his tracks. He might feel that if he makes you happy then his guilt is lessened and the two things cancel each other out, which is not how this works. He may also believe that if you are happy you will be less suspicious of him and his actions.

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